Terribly wanted to marry … ”

And pulled me by the same language blurt this! Now here comes to reap the fruits of his excessive rechivosti. No, it was silent b then, look, and would have remained without significant losses. Not only do all of my meager wardrobe and so turned the top down, so I suspect soon, and me in turn. And like all good place to start … Read the rest of this entry »

In the body of the whole seething hormones, the soul asks tenderness, and her body is unclear why. Along with the arrival of spring comes and vitamin deficiency, allergy, do lazy, always tired, sleepy, what do you do? Read the rest of this entry »

“All love going as much as she deserves” (Bridget Bordeaux).
And a rare love worthy of immortality.

Yes, we all meet and part – it’s inevitable. And, unfortunately, this inevitable part of our lives often turn our lives into hell. Rarely, who have the courage to tell his young man that was dope hobbies and time for you to leave. If this was done immediately, how bitter parting would have passed without dramatic losses on both sides? From the standpoint of common sense, there is nothing easier to tell partner that you stopped loving him. But the fact that outwardly looks easy, is not always easy to implement in real life. Partners cooled to each other, napletut with three boxes of fables, why can not they come out on a date, and if they deign to come, they will be angry, will contrive petty quarrels.

So you’ve decided that since last any longer. Where to start? Tell yourself that your parting is nothing like a coherent, well-considered decision of two who had lost each other a former interest. It is not necessary to turn the parting of the drama. Who first realized that his feelings have disappeared forever, should calmly explain it differently. And it was explained, and not pee sudden decision. You should not say that in doing so you (you and your conscience) will feel relaxed and that you get in the face of the former best friend. It’s difficult: being a long time in certain respects, we can not immediately get into a new role for itself. Love still requires a completely different forms of trust than friendship. Although it is impossible to say that in friendship relations over the surface or less valuable.

Love was … Be friends?

Believe that this is impossible? Never say never! Just think: you grind in a few years together, you have had the same friends, you hear the same music and opted for the same strength of coffee with cream … His family have become yours and vice versa. Maybe you’ve even started a common cause with his uncle … Is because of some stupid disagreement absolutely necessary to destroy all relationships and avoid his presence in a radius of two kilometers away?

Break – not to build, to swear – not tolerated! Suppress the pride and try to do without the rudeness of his address. Is not on every street corner crying to his obnoxious character, bad habits of his relatives and incompatible horoscopes. Just rasstantes peacefully and become a good friend to her now former …

Won the friendship?

1. Use your break wisely. Give the man some time to it as to be “cool.” Pointless in the first days after the “divorce” gang up with a flaming offer of friendship to the grave.

2. Now, when your ex-half had already regained consciousness and is able to think sensibly, bravely puts everything points “over the e” (see all of the above about his uncle and business, friends, music and coffee with cream). With the right of presenting things she will have no choice but to agree with your arguments and … to remain on friendly warm relations with you.

3. So. Former occasionally tinkled you invite for a cup of tea to talk about the weather and the new disc Britney Spears. You are willing to support all joint activities, all as happy chatting with his mom on the phone and did not even opposed to meeting with his new passion … That’s where things get complicated. How not to be jealous? The main thing in this kind of friendship to clearly define for yourself what you are now friends (!) – No more. Once and underline the word punktirchikom, circle in the frame, hang on a wall – and every doubt of the emerging “platonichnosti” your feelings, read like a mantra.

4. A nice way – to find yourself a new passion. And him and you. Then nobody will be offended, and a new suitor is unlikely to be jealous of you to the former. And of course, do not even try to compare his brand new (it’s height, weight, breast size, wages, manner of speaking) and myself. Agree, it is meaningless: no matter what the result of comparison, nothing will change.

5. However, to get yourself someone to forget him / annoy – not the best strategy for a respectable young lady. Still, forgetting in the arms of strangers, we become a little masochist.

6. Do not try to recover lost, otherwise you will inevitably turn into an eternal bore reflectors. Keep your image in a new, formal pastel, neutral, warm colors. If you feel that the feelings themselves are restored, then … Actually you decide.

7. Refer to the psychologist. Who else but an experienced specialist helps you to soberly assess the situation and give independent advice.

Sophie Arnould wrote: “Friendship – the sister of love, but she was born not in the same bed.” With this easy to bet: friendship, without doubt, can be produced in the same bed as the love! This is not fiction, which is distributed tabloid romances. Think of yourself as you all know couples separated, while remaining friends. Yes, it is not easy, but it is quite possible. And with only one condition: to preserve respect for each other. Without this – no way.

Joint life … Hard-hard and sweet-sweet. How to dream? Here, I’ll live with the little man dear to the heart … our souls will merge in ecstasy, our bodies – in orgasm. We will be eternally happy, inhaling one breath will complement the other … This will be a paradise on earth, we sleep hand in hand and wake up with the first rays of the sun to indulge in passions … Read the rest of this entry »

Not to be a great psychologist to determine the main cause of fights between men and women. Understanding – is a fundamental and most significant piece of the puzzle called “Relationships”. And it around this element arranged all the other components of the picture of the world. Read the rest of this entry »