What could be worse than the love from a distance? And at the same time as well that there is somewhere a person who waits and loves. But is it all rosy in this love? It is possible that we just created the illusion of love for yourself, not to feel alone. Love at a distance, too, is different: communication via the Internet, correspondence, telephone conversations, and rare, but still meeting.

Communicating via the Internet

Experience shows that on a dating site people turn to several reasons and those reasons have tried to formulate the creators of these sites as targets to meet: romantic, sexual, for correspondence, serious, etc. Initially attracted interest, waiting for a new adventure or a specific goal to find yourself a friend. Those who come to satisfy curiosity, to quickly reach the goal, and disappear. Regulars dating site are people who prefer to communicate in a virtual world to communicate in the real world, everyday. By the way, never knew these people and are very sorry for them because they become hostages of the “internet chat rooms, mostly unsociable people, who find it difficult to express themselves in the real world in a live conversation.

It would seem that virtual communication could help them, but it only aggravates the stealth man, forgetful at all what life is and how to communicate with people in everyday mire.Dlya them not so much important to find a partner, then to continue to meet with him “really” very much “party”, chatting with new people through the Internet. And I must say that this goal they realize completely, since this is where you can meet a person with whom may never have met in my life, not to mention the international nature of dating. The advantage of online communication is anonymous, is that you do not need to be yourself. You can choose for himself any role, wear any mask and your partner may never know who is behind this role is a mask.

Love by correspondence

In a registry office or the aisle people go because they want to be together every moment, in joy and in sorrow, in sickness and in health, not just in a few hours of festivities. And because they want to have and raise their children. “Strange … so beautiful like a girl and a smart, why is it always one? No man beside her permanent? “- Says molva.A it meets all that is her fiance, only to live in another town, country, continent … Yes, she has hard, because few people believe in such relationships, although proving something anything to anyone Optional someone touches to travel – without a hint of flirtation relations and communication. And on their arrival home the novel begins: Sms-ki, candid letters “e-mail, phone calls to your mobile … Then, there are two possible options: either to meet someone more interesting, possible new novel, or all flare up and ignite a way that will serve declaration in a registry office and someone to move.

Rare meeting: he comes, you are to him or meeting takes place on neutral territory. Mad sex interspersed with dialogue, humor, with a sense of “each time, as the last! And so once per six months or a year, why is it so difficult, you ask? Can we somehow start from the comfort of a relationship? But for some meaning is that one should not this convenience! In the banal relations interest to the partner is gone and all nadoedaet.Tak what is good for such special affair at a distance? Apparently, the certainty of the impossibility of continuing it! That is, they are not going to get married … Well, what is the “local” is not satisfied? “Probably, because this game is like the passion both of who are on different shores – it is something elusive, that so fascinates – the lovers meet .

They say – and reinforces the separation brings

In fact, it is not, at the distance people learn to live without each other, and gradually cool down. Retrieved from their own experience – and the friendship was like, and respect for the remains, but the love was not and will not, unfortunately, or fortunately … He is certainly a wonderful person, maybe we would live next to – things would have been with us well, but time and distance take their. We have nothing to say, we have different interests and goals. But those who believe – happiness and udachi.Na distance you can come up with anything, like tell a lie and what to say, but when you look in your eyes – everything is clear without slov.Tem, who had such a relationship familiar with the situation when three months was just fantastic He tried to come as often as possible, but often times in two weeks does not go, and then completely once a month, had only to call and write … up, feeling noticeably cooled.

Or – before his departure confirmed that will be waiting for you all my life, nothing is harder can not be in the world! He did incredible feats of stupidity, and for your sake. A few months later just does not write, and if they wrote, then three times in a row polgoda.I so often happens, just perhaps, someone met, met, fell in love. You all understand, and therefore is not tuned to the eternal love and devotion! Although there are other examples: the queen met with the man through the Internet, all thrown for him and moved in with him. Now they have been married for three goda.Komu something better at a distance to avoid everyday problems that kill love. Although it is natural to want more time …